Infants and Toddlers (0-2 years)*

1. **Non-verbal Communication**: Infants and toddlers rely heavily on non-verbal cues. Maintain eye contact, smile often, and use gentle touch to convey warmth and security.
2. **Simple Language**: Use simple, repetitive language to convey messages. Short sentences and clear gestures help them understand and respond.
3. **Engage in Play**: Play is a powerful form of communication for this age group. Use toys and games to interact and build trust. Follow their lead, and join in their exploration.

Preschoolers (3-5 years)**

1. **Active Listening**: Show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings. Encourage them to express themselves freely without judgment. Repeat what they say to validate their feelings.
2. **Provide Choices**: Offer limited choices to empower them and encourage decision-making skills. For example, “Would you like apples or oranges for snack?”
3. **Storytelling**: Use stories and books to teach important lessons and discuss emotions. Encourage them to express their thoughts about the characters and events.

School-Aged Children (6-12 years)**

1. **Open Dialogue**: Foster open communication by creating a safe environment where they feel comfortable expressing themselves. Listen actively and validate their opinions.
2. **Ask Open-ended Questions**: Encourage deeper conversations by asking open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. This shows interest and promotes critical thinking.
3. **Respect Privacy**: As children grow older, they value their privacy. Respect their boundaries while still being available for support and guidance.

Teenagers (13-18 years)**

1. **Respect Autonomy**: Recognize their independence and their opinions, even if they differ from yours. Avoid being judgmental or dismissive.
2. **Be Available**: Create opportunities for meaningful conversations without pressure. Car rides, walks, or shared activities can provide a relaxed atmosphere for discussion.
3. **Empathy and Understanding**: Acknowledge the challenges they face and validate their experiences. Empathize with their emotions and offer support without trying to solve all their problems.

Effective communication with children requires adaptability and empathy. By understanding their developmental stages and employing appropriate strategies, you can foster openness, trust, and understanding in your interactions. Remember to be patient, listen actively, and nurture a supportive environment for healthy communication to thrive.

In order to tend to your child’s heart, you must invest in your connection to God.